A specific definition of the term dominant
preoccupation is as follows – it is
the existence of a worry, anxiety, problem, challenge
or desire which takes over all thoughts in a persistent
manner. In other words, it is an idea that won't go
away, constantly occupying your mind and for which
we search for a favourable conclusion or outcome.
And you, what are your dominant preoccupations? What do
you think of before going to sleep at night, or when you're
all alone in your car? What preoccupations keep coming
back to you?? Is your primary preoccupation to increase
your sales, or to take a vacation, or make sure that your
children get a good education, etc?
In order to better understand this concept, I'd like to
give you a few examples;
First case – if someone smokes, and they are more or less
worried about their health, they will never see the serious
reasons why they should quit smoking. They know well enough
that their health is important, and that it would be a
good idea to stop smoking, but they will never stop because
their health is not a dominant preoccupation. However,
if this same smoker suddenly
learns from their doctor that if they don't quit, they
will only live for a few more months, you can be sure that
they'll quit, because it has suddenly become a dominant
preoccupation. It goes without saying that
this type of diagnostic usually arouses fear; the smoker
will surely make every effort possible to eliminate this
dominate preoccupation.
Second case – let's take again the case of the smoker
who is not ready to stop smoking, and is single. One of
his latest obsessions is to find a suitable partner and
possibly a wife. One fine day, he meets THE woman
of his dreams, and it is love at first sight. But, as it
turns out, the woman absolutely detests smoking and cigarettes.
The fact the he is a heavy smoker has become a major stumbling
block in the continuation of this long-awaited and much
desired relationship, and his dominant preoccupation is
to maintain the relationship with the woman of his dreams.
Therefore, he will take the necessary action to stop smoking,
temporarily if not permanently.
Third case – if you changed your car this year, it is
normal that the acquisition of this new car is important
and you can't think of anything else. If however, your
car lease is up at the end of the month, the closer the
end is, the more you will be absorbed in your choice of
what to do. If two days before the end of your lease you
still haven't decided what you're going to do, or what
kind of car you want, this choice becomes a dominant
preoccupation and you have to take whatever
measures are necessary in order to decide quickly, especially
if you require a car for working.
What we can learn from these examples is that when someone
takes action and makes a decision, it is mainly due to
the fact that they have found the solution to a dominant
preoccupation.
Imagine you sell software, and after a lengthy confidence-building
discussion with a Client, you ask “In your company, what
are the greatest preoccupations or challenges that you
face?” He might answer “we want to reduce expenses because
our profit margin has been reduced”, then you have put
your finger on the dominant preoccupation of
this individual, and his company. From that moment on,
every characteristic of your product or service that you
are offering must respond to this preoccupation.
Normally, there is more than one dominant preoccupation,
and it's your job to find them. When however a Client openly
communicates it to you, your sale is almost assured.
I know that your product or service offers many benefits
to your Clients, and that you want him to know of all the
marvellous characteristics that it possesses. Take note
though that your client couldn't care less about
your product or service, because the only thing that interests
him is to resolve his or her dominant preoccupation. Therefore,
STOP talking about the qualities of your product, and START
talking about how the product or service will resolve or
diminish his preoccupations. Your sales will increase considerably
when you start selling in this manner.
Don't take my word for it, try it for yourself.
Good luck and great sales!
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